How can I help my cat adjust to the new cats?

ALMOSTBLIND2007 asked:

4 months ago I adopted 2 cats from the local animal rescue and the cat that has lived here for about 4 years has still not adjusted to these 2 new cats or the 2 addtional ones I adopted 2 months ago. The first cat took refuge downstairs in my rec-room on the coach and will only leave that spot to eat and use the litter box(usually) sometimes I find pee/poop on the coach. I have tried everything from keeping them separated to keeping them in the same room. When any of the 4 new cats(2 are still kittens) go near her she just screams bloody murder. Will she ever adjust or should I consider something else?

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4 thoughts on “How can I help my cat adjust to the new cats?”

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    It will adjust, just give it like one year or so. Try to put them together, i mean dont squeeze them in one place, but give them a toy or a cotton ball or try moving a long piece of string across the ground. They will play together, and soon learn how to ‘socialize’. Hope av helped. Mia

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    ~Of course the cat that’s been there the longest is territorial. I have my cat and now my mother’s cat and they don’t get along. When we’re around they both get territorial, but when we leave them alone, or they think they’re alone, they don’t fight.
    I think you have too many house cats. It’s hard enough to get two cats used to each other.
    My only advice about this is let them work it out and spray the furniture to keep the cats off of it.
    I definitely wouldn’t recommend a cotton ball for them to play with.
    Good luck.~

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    Some cats (especially tortoiseshell) do not like other cats…they will sooner or later put up with them but that is it. It does depend how you introduce them on how fast they adjust.
    First put them in a separate room and when you introduce them make sure they are in a crate or pen. Buy some Feliway and/or Rescue Remedy to reduce the stress and keep them calm.
    Then put your cat in the room that the new cat has been in so it can get used to the smell of the new cat without confronting the new kitty.
    Just be patient for it takes time and each cat is different…some take longer than others to adjust.
    Good luck!

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    This is invaluable info: borrowed from the HSUS. I post it here since “incompatibility” is one of the main reasons of return of adopted pets to our pound. Please read, it works wonderfully!

    “Wouldn’t it be nice if all it took to introduce a new cat to your resident pet were a brief handshake and a couple of “HELLO, My Name Is “Fluffy”? Unfortunately, it’s not quite that simple, which means you’ll need to have some realistic expectations from the outset. What are realistic expectations? First, it’s recognizing and accepting that your pets may never be best buddies but will usually come to at least tolerate each other. Second, it’s understanding the need to move slowly during the introduction process to increase your chances for success.
    Of course, some cats are more social than other cats. For example, an eight-year-old cat who has never been around other animals may never learn to share her territory (and her people) with other pets in the household. But an eight-week-old kitten separated from her mom and littermates for the first time might be glad to have a cat or dog companion.

    Cats are territorial, and they need to be introduced to other animals very slowly so they can get used to each other before a face-to-face confrontation. Slow introductions help prevent fearful and aggressive problems from developing. Here are some guidelines to help make the introductions go smoothly:


    Confine your new cat to one medium-sized room with her litter box, food, water, and a bed. Feed your resident pets and the newcomer on each side of the door to this room, so that they associate something enjoyable (eating!) with each other’s smells. Don’t put the food so close to the door that the animals are too upset by each other’s presence to eat. Gradually move the dishes closer to the door until your pets can eat calmly while standing directly on either side of the door.

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    Swap the sleeping blankets or beds used by the cats so they each have a chance to become accustomed to the other’s scent. You can even rub a towel on one animal and put it underneath the food dish of another animal. If there are more than two animals in the house, do the same for each animal.

    Once your new cat is using her litter box and eating regularly while confined, let her have free time in the house while confining your other animals to the new cat’s room. This switch provides another way for the animals to experience each other’s scents without a face-to-face meeting. It also allows the newcomer to become familiar with her new surroundings without being frightened by the other animals.

    Next, after the animals have been returned to their original designated parts of the house, use two doorstops to prop open the dividing door just enough to allow the animals to see each other, and repeat the whole process over a period of days—supervised, of course.

    Slow and Steady Wins the Race

    Avoid any interactions between your pets that result in either fearful or aggressive behavior. If these responses are allowed to become a habit, they can be difficult to change. It’s better to introduce your pets to each other so gradually that neither animal becomes afraid or aggressive. You can expect a mild protest from either cat from time to time, but don’t allow these behaviors to intensify. If either animal becomes fearful or aggressive, separate them, and start the introduction process once again with a series of very small, gradual steps.

    You’ll also want to have at least one litter box per cat, and you’ll probably need to clean all of the litter boxes more frequently. Make sure that none of the cats is being “ambushed” by another while trying to use the litter box, and be sure each cat has a safe hiding place.

    Try to keep your resident pets’ schedule close to what it was before the newcomer’s arrival. Cats can make a lot of noise, pull each other’s hair, and roll around quite dramatically without any injuries. If small spats do occur between your cats, you shouldn’t attempt to intervene directly to separate the cats. Instead, make a loud noise, throw a pillow, or use a squirt bottle with water and vinegar to separate the cats. Give them a chance to calm down before re-introducing them to each other.- gratefully reprinted from the HSUS.


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